Try to Get rid of your rotten man physique
I often hear that many girls complain about themselves or blame each other, why they always meet bad men, every time they blindly fall in love with the wrong person, or are deceived...
In fact, sometimes it is not necessarily the other party’s problem. You have to review why you are always attracted by bad men or attract the attention of bad men. Turn around and let yourself get rid of the "bad man constitution" and let the bad men retreat. Only when a good man is close to you can he avoid encountering a dangerous lover every time he falls in love, ruining his dignity and wasting his time.
Under the influence of the media, more and more girls feel that they want to burst breasts to be sexy and a good girl. In fact, that is totally wrong idea!
I know some girls who are beautiful, of good figure, good personality, and kind-hearted, but they always have troubles and meet the kind of men who just play and run. Whenever they cried to me, I couldn’t understand it. Finally, I saw her cleavage, and I suddenly realized that they always appeared in front of men in the costume of big breasts, and of course they attracted a bunch of pig brothers and perverts. . Even when I talk to them, I keep my eyes on her cleavage.
I told them, don’t always burst breasts, let men only notice your figure, or get close to you because of your figure. Put your cleavage away, let the man know you well, and avoid the man who just wants one-night stand and always wants to have a physical relationship.
Don’t be superstitious about beauty, and don’t let yourself become a woman with only the advantage of "sexy." Sexy is very good, but there are many different forms of sexy. The real sexy is not showing too much, but the attitude and personality that make people feel sexy. That's really attractive.
I was also curious to ask a male friend, what kind of woman would make you want to lie?
To be honest, a man is best to lie to a woman who has no opinion, is not easy to make decisions, has no focus in life and loves money.
What kind of women fall in love with bad men easily?
Women have no opinion, no ideas and persistence, and it is easy to agree to unreasonable demands of men. For example, when you are used as a spare tire but tell you that he actually loves you, dear, if a man really loves you, how can he be willing to treat you as a spare tire?
There is no bottom line and it is too easy to compromise. Many people who are prone to encounter "dangerous lovers" are too easy to compromise and soften to others, so they know that the other person is wrong and dangerous to themselves, so they are still willing to give the other person the opportunity to hurt themselves. People who don't have a bottom line will give in everywhere, so that they will be ruined, disrespected, and even hurt.
Difficulty in making decisions (strong obedience, not knowing what you want, not confident in your own decision) or lack of focus in life , easy to be swayed by a dangerous lover, if he asks you to cooperate with him and prioritize him, you will lose The right to decide.
A woman who has no focus in life is afraid of loneliness and has a good mentality without fish and shrimp . Even if she knows that this man is not good, she will continue to pester him for the sake of "I have a boyfriend anyway" and "At least someone eats with me." Don't even want to leave a bad object, just because you're not sure if the next one will be better?
Women who love money too much are often cheated by men with swollen faces and fat people. This is why Social News has so many cases of "losing people and money", thinking that they have met a wealthy person, and in turn they were deceived by "fraud syndicates." A while ago, there was a case in the news that bought a middle-aged Mercedes at a low price and pretended to be a rich man. He also defrauded a woman and defrauded a real rich man. He managed to get nearly a million. If the man you meet always pretends at first, and speaks as if he is powerful, you must be careful that he is probably a liar.
There is also the need to choose the right place and way to meet men . "There is no real love in a happy scene . " The chance of meeting a good man in nightclubs, hotels and other places is almost zero. Because the people who come here just want to have fun, look good, or even one-night stand..., people who want to look for someone seriously will not look for them in the fun field.
You must also be careful when you get to know the opposite sex on the Internet. When you encounter many people or scammers on the Internet, you must spend a lot of time to understand him in real life. And many of them may be married and pretending to be single , so you really have to be careful of people of unknown origin, otherwise you don't know if you become a silly junior. The best way is to introduce a trusted friend to avoid knowing his background and relationship status. Ask a friend to help you filter out men who are not suitable for you.
I think the most important point is not to pay too much attention to appearance. Of course, many girls like handsome guys, but the chances that handsome guys are really bothered (if I am a handsome guy, a lot of girls post it every day, it’s hard for me to spend it?), and it’s hard work together. Don't pay too much attention to the other person's appearance, but pay more attention to the other person's character, personality and inner life. The appearance is pleasing to your own eyes, handsome guy! Just take a look, don't you have to be handsome? !
From my own observation, many good men are not handsome men in everyone’s eyes, so you have to give them more opportunities, get to know some more, and get a deeper understanding, then you will know that if you always use appearance to screen men, you I really miss a lot of good men. Give those good men who are not good at some more opportunities! You will find happiness more easily.
And sister, I have a deep experience in my own life. If a man wants you to feel that you have to "compete" to get it, don't "compete". Letting go is the best for you! The so-called competition, for example: He is a heartthrob, a woman who has a good relationship with women, has a girlfriend, or you are not only an ambiguous object..., you are a junior or he has a junior, sincerely suggest that you give up Your best choice. Because this man really doesn't like you enough, he doesn't love you, so you will only be one of his choices.
Some people will even use "competition" to make you feel that you have competitors and rivals , and many people will fall into a mood of "I must win". They will compete with each other and scold them. Please, then Really stupid! Don't rob a person who is unfaithful. He is really not as good as you think. You think he is good only because someone robs you. Grabbing a man is like robbing clothes at a sale. Don’t grab the clothes at a sale. They won’t be worn or worn for a while. What’s worse is that they only find a bunch of defects and cannot be returned.
When I was single, some boys wanted to be ambiguous with me. When I was not sure whether to accept him or not, I found that he was also ambiguous with other girls. Fortunately, my sister, my eyes are sharp, and my mind is clear. I immediately put down my good feelings for him and stopped giving him a chance to be ambiguous. Facts have proved that my choice is right. This man has still been ambiguous with many women, and he still has a girlfriend he does not want to admit publicly. (So blind!)
I must re-emphasize a cliché: "A woman needs a clear head to live well!"
Sisters, when you encounter bad men every time you complain, you have to review yourself. Why don't you love good men, but you fall in love with bad men? You have to change your bad man physique, otherwise you will only continue to meet similar bad men.
The point is, before you find a good one, make yourself a good one. What kind of men you want to attract, you must turn yourself into what kind of women.
Make yourself a woman that good men will appreciate, not a woman that bad men will pay attention to. Don't waste time on the "wrong" object and deceive yourself and try to turn him into the right one. It is really futile and a waste of youth and life!
You must change yourself before you can change your emotional luck♥ ..
